28 June 2010

Short stories: Seed of love

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Revival of seed of love

What is love? Love can make a person happy but sometimes may cause a person gone crazy if failed to handled it when it comes to the end. What makes a relationship end? When there  incompatibility of the partner, and hardly understand of each other it is very hard for  this love to survive. seed of love are in dormant state when the both sides are holding back the truth of feelings towards each other. This may become a mishap and unfortunate if it is not let go and missing the opportunism of living the life to the fullest with their  true love.

What if the dormancy of the seed of love was broken and able to grow into a potential true love? Water is needed in order to break the dormancy seed of love, besides, air, oxygen, sun, nutrients.

1.       God love us, we love you
God is the foundation of love, we learn to love when we believe in His love. Through his teaching, there is a lot of things that we have learn. We have learn to love each other. God did not teach us to eliminate our enemy or hate them but to approach and share the love that he gave

2.       Giving second chance
Every one is worth given the second chance because no one is perfect. So, it is important to just let go the unpleasant memory and restart a new relationship. With the second chance, they will be a potential of increasing the depth understanding of the relationship and the reason of the mistake was happening. This is little gap that give people the chance to be a better  person.

The reality of reviving a wilting love is to give a second chance to restart a new relationship and understand the partner besides spending some time for some reflection of the past relationship. Honesty is crucial in reviving as it was an effort of earn  trust from the partner.

In  my own story, I’m happy to this point that I have discovered that I can give such an impression to people life. I can make people feel comfortable and be understandable to myself. I can be a place for someone to turn to and I can be the people that make people want to love. As I personally can’t see this kind of quality in myself. Without realizing it, my partner who tried to revive the seed of love was almost succeed as he was mentioning about the quality of personality in me that make him comfortable. Spending  time answering all the question that I kept in  my mind was the effort of him to earn my trust and convince me to make fresh start in our relation ship. He is really come forward to his confession of keeping her Milo picture in his laptop and talking about contacting her and so forth. But I still having my own confession to make and explaining the reason for all the thing that I have done just to escape from the social circle. Trying to tell my side of the story and make myself more comprehensible. As I was trying to know him better as well but merely through the chatting  time.

3.       Acknowledgement of family
When family know about the relationship, there is a little sense of security in it as it’s just shows that people are growing nearer to you. There is stand a chance of longer relationship success. They is no evaluation needed from the family. Exceptionally, it’s not confirming for the relationship to be ended with marriage.

4.       Comparison and analysis
With the previous experience, there is always comparison between the exes, and the feeling that someone available to make u feel was unanimously different whenever you are nearby, angry, or words that you hear without have to say it. As the analysis of the things that happen during the relationship was quite interesting and it may make people feel and eyes open when you realize something that you don’t think is express in your personality

5.       Spending time apart for a short period of time.
When there is short period of time apart, there is always a chance of feeling emptiness in it, when the emptiness is happening, there is someone missing in your life. This will make you confirm and feel that you can’t live without your partner.

6.       Inspiring
When you was inspired  by person, you feels that you are enthusiastic to talk with that person and feels that you are really needed that person’s word to make you enthusiastic.

7.       Sense of security
There is a sense of security that you feel whenever you are trying to give it to the person that you want to convince, it’s very important to just discuss about feeling and heart. Through this, there is always a sense of security as you are answering the question that get have been bugging you around.

8.       Laid back
There should be a laid back in the relationship to just not making the partner feels the  pressure. As it may be a little less of text message, or call.

9.       Love maturity
Love will mature when there is a time it was dormant, it’ always grow, but, beware of the cheater who have a big heart.


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